
Therapy Tools I Love
Therapy Tools I Love
Resources, reflections, and support beyond the session
At Davenport Counseling, we believe healing doesn't stop when your session ends. That’s why we’ve created this space to share practical tools, insights, and encouragement for your journey toward emotional wellness.
Whether you're looking for coping strategies, relationship tips, or inspiration for your mental health, you’ll find support here.
Podcasts
Can conflict actually bring you and your partner closer? It depends on how you fight, say Julie and John Gottman, the world’s leading relationship scientists. They share why the way couples fight can predict the future of their relationships — and show how anybody can transform conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection and understanding.
Relationship Tools
Relationship Quiz
One of the most important components of a successful relationship is the quality of friendship between partners. And that requires knowing your partner’s likes, dislikes, needs, desires, beliefs, fears, and life dreams.
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So, how well do you really know your partner? Take the Relationship quiz to find out.
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​Find Out What’s Really Going On
​Understand what the strengths and weaknesses are in your relationship. Get you the help you need.​
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Arguing about the same things over and over and not sure what the problem really is? Or maybe you just want to learn more about the state of your partnership The Gottman Assessment, powered by renowned, research-based Gottman Method, can help you evaluate what is really going on in your relationship, and then recommend solutions proven to strengthen your connection.
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​Gottman Deck Cards
​A fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship. Download to explore 14 card decks with more than 1,000 flashcards.


One of the most important components of a successful relationship is the quality of friendship between partners. And that requires knowing your partner’s likes, dislikes, needs, desires, beliefs, fears, and life dreams.
So, how well do you really know your partner? Take the Relationship quiz to find out.
https://www.gottman.com/how-well-do-you-know-your-partner/
Find Out What’s Really Going On
Understand what the strengths and weaknesses are in your relationship. Get you the help you need.
Gottman Deck Cards
A fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship. Download to explore 14 card decks with more than 1,000 flashcards.
Behavioral Health
Take a Free Screening

Brief behavioral health screenings are the quickest way to determine if you or someone you care about should connect with a behavioral health professional.
Mental Health & Self-Care

This free, shareable resource library includes videos and informational PDFs on common mental health conditions, self-care strategies, and how to support ourselves, our peers, and children in times of stress.
Reading List!
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Bessel van der KolkBessel van der Kolk
​Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments—from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga—that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain’s natural neuroplasticity. Based on Dr. van der Kolk’s own research and that of other leading specialists, The Body Keeps the Score exposes the tremendous power of our relationships both to hurt and to heal—and offers new hope for reclaiming lives.
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships Marshall B. Rosenberg PhD
What is Violent Communication?
If “violent” means acting in ways that result in hurt or harm, then much of how we communicate—judging others, bullying, having racial bias, blaming, finger pointing, discriminating, speaking without listening, criticizing others or ourselves, name-calling, reacting when angry, using political rhetoric, being defensive or judging who’s “good/bad” or what’s “right/wrong” with people—could indeed be called “violent communication.”
What is Nonviolent Communication?



